Your 7 Words is an original concept created initially for my own self-development purposes to help overcome a situational depression caused by my mom’s death and my fiancé breakup 12 days later back in January of 2017. My research and discovery of my own 7 Word self-created story helped me to overcome my feelings of despair and hopelessness. That 7 Word story I uncovered was instrumental in my understanding and my breakthrough. I ultimately discovered that I was giving my power away to other people so that they would pay attention to me, like me and hopefully love me. Uncovering the WHY I gave my power away was instrumental in uncovering the key to behavioral change and unconscious behavior being replaced by conscious thought. 

Created unknowingly by our subconscious this cycle continues to sabotage our relationships, well-being and our happiness…

After taking others through this technique I was then able to help other individuals uncover and understand how early childhood insecurities and the separation from parents we all go through at age 3 in order to become more independent actually leave us with a feeling of being invisible and therefore feeling unloved. We all unknowingly set out to be noticed by our parents (moms) which we hope will lead to being liked and ultimately being loved. Everyone’s first, second, fourth, fifth and seventh words are the same and only our 3rd and 6th. words are different for everyone.  We all have different 3rd words based on a question we ask ourselves stemming from our 3 year old self. Our 6th word is discovered when we realize what happens when we don’t get the attention and love we had hoped for and becomes our go-to response to adversity. The cycle repeats over and over and over sabotaging well-being, happiness and relationships.